Visitors Questoin: How do I learn to deal with my boyfriends lack of hygiene? He only showers about once a week, doesn't clean up his dirty dishes and leaved dirty clothes all over the bedroom floor. Is there a nice way I can bring up the topic and get my man spic and span?
Answer: The only thing you can do is talk to him. Remember you can't change anyone that doesn't recognize a problem within themselves to change themselves.
Also remember this guy is who he is from the very beginning. You should and must pay attention to what you have now, and not what could be later because he may never be later.
I hope I've given you something to roll with. Good luck and all the best.