by Mallory
(Owen Sound)
Visitors Story:
I think a big red flag in a relationship is when certain things come up that you realize aren't going to work in the future. For example, when you mention that you want children in the future but your current spouse reveals that they do not. This kind of thing can cause stress and tension in a relationship.
Another red flag is when exes or friends of your spouse all have stories about your current spouse from the past that may reveal something unwanted for the future.